Drama

Yesterday, was my niece's 13th birthday. Happy Birthday Katrina. You are now a teenager and all the drama that goes with it.
Speaking of drama, my brother and his wife are going thru a nasty "he did, he said, she did, she said" big D. My brother is not Katrina's dad but has been her step dad for over 10 years. She calls him dad and thinks of him as dad. Katrina's real dad has been in and out of her life except for the last 4 years he has stepped up to the plate.
My brother's soon-to-be ex-wife and I have never seen eye to eye. I think she is too wrapped up in herself. My brother is the better parent and has been for along time. Infact, she left my brother because she need "ME TIME" What the hell is that? She didn't want to be a mom anymore at this time. What a selfish person, as I see it. There are women out there that want to be mom's so bad and can't. Then, she comes along and just wants to kick them to the curb.
The drama keeps on going as we speak...........I have not talked to my brother's wife for over 6 months she has the balls to text me yesterday "Today is Katrina's bday. She is 13 years old. Her number is 555-555-5555. Thanks Meg." My response "Her bday is marked on the calendar, I have her # and there is no need for you to ever text me. If she would have talked to her own daughter on her birthday she would have known I had already talked to her.
For the last 6 months I have stood by my brother as he went thru hell. Held his hand as she slapped with with a restraining order. On lies. She has done nothing but lie, and cheat. He fought the restraining order and won. What does she get nothing. She now wants to get back together with my brother. Play time is over I guess, now. She knows now that the grass is not always green. My brother.........well, I can't be his support any more for him. It has taken it's toll on me and my family. He is thinking about making it work. I would say go for it but this is the 3rd time she has done this in 10 years. I don't think she will ever be happy.